Step 1: Starting with the Feminine

Let’s get started with an introduction to the Feminine, Masculine and the best articles to begin understanding it all…

So what IS feminine? What does it look like? Can you learn how to be feminine?

So…the question that everyone keeps asking me…what IS feminine? What does being feminine look like? Well having established why femininity is important, in order to explain what it is, let’s start with what it isn’t. There are so many misperceptions about what the word feminine actually means, and I think it’s important that we address […]

What is masculinity?

Having shared my definition of Femininity some time ago…I thought it was about time I also shared my definition of Masculinity. The important thing to point out when talking about masculinity and femininity is that neither one is ‘better’ or ‘worse’ than the other – they’re just different…


Today I want to talk about one of my all time favourite topics….Shoes! 🙂 There are lots of different types of shoes available…there are high heels, flip flops, men’s shoes, ladies boots, wellington boots, pumps, wedges, flippers, trainers…the list goes on and on. The thing with shoes is that not every type of shoe is […]

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Feminine – Weak or Strong?

Something which I’ve noticed coming up on a regular basis when talking about femininity is the perception by some people that it equals weakness. I have to say that, more often than not, it’s women who bring up the subject. They are reluctant to be associated with the word feminine, because they believe they will […]

Can you be feminine and feminist at the same time?

I’m not a fan of stereotypes…in any area of life. These days it seems that stereotypes are more like caricatures. It is all about focusing on the extremes, rather than the norms. I frequently find the concepts of femininity and feminism are referred to as if they are opposites. Ironically, if you look feminism up […]

How to get your balance…

Balance. No, I’m not talking about walking down the road with a Manolo Blahnik bag in one hand and a Jimmy Choo bag in the other. I’m talking about balance in life. We hear about balance all the time. Work-life balance. Balanced diet. Emotionally balanced. Balance the cheque book. In the balance. The balancing act. […]

Fake Feminine

So having talked about masculine masks last week, this week we’re looking at the other side of the coin. Because as difficult as a masculine mask is…wearing a feminine one can be even worse… We have all seen women who are quite obviously prioritising their masculine tendencies, but the other extreme are women who put […]

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The reality of masculine masks…

We all know that drag is most commonly associated with describing a man in women’s clothing (before I get corrected here, yes I know that it is used the other way around too! 😉 ), but the real drag is a woman who is feminine on the inside and yet putting on a masculine mask. […]

So what's so important about femininity anyway?

Femininity – So what’s in it for me?

So what’s so important about Femininity anyway? So what’s so important about Femininity? Why should we care? We’ve been proving to everyone out there, men and women alike, that we can do anything and everything that the boys can do (often quicker and better!) for decades now…so what’s the big deal? I mean, we’ve still […]