Why do some women avoid masculine men?

Why do some women avoid masculine men? Claire Brummell, Feminine 1stI find it interesting how strongly people can react to a simple word. As soon as you say the word masculine, some women just shut down, they’re not interested, they don’t want to know. When this happens most of the time I know exactly what’s happening…they are reacting to an image in their mind.   The perception of what masculine really is…but the reality is that they only know half the story.

So what’s the problem with masculine men?

The answer is that there’s nothing ‘wrong’ with masculine men, often women just aren’t aware that there’s more than one type. It’s the same reason that some men are afraid of or resistant to reclaim their masculinity, because their perception of what that means isn’t the whole story. Last week I shared that there are two types of feminine, and it’s exactly the same with the masculine.

So why does it matter that there are two types of masculine?

Well, the reason it’s important to know that there are two types of masculine is that if you make your decision on how you feel about masculinity only seeing one (sometimes unappealing) aspect of it, it can skew your view on the whole thing. So, to help you out, today I’m sharing with you what the two types of masculine are…and why it’s important to be able to identify them…

So which type of masculine have you experienced?

As with the feminine, there are times when a man is feeling low, criticised, or like he’s failing where he may drop into the disempowered masculine…but it’s important to know whether he lives there or just visits from time to time when his energy is low.

So I’m curious…what type of masculine have you experienced?

Have you seen both in action?  Can you bring to mind examples of times when you’ve seen one or the other in a man you know?

…and most importantly which do you want to support your man in being?

Stay Fabulous,

Claire x

How can you have a relationship vision and not take the masculine hunter approach to get it?

How to have a relationship vision and not approach it in a masculine way, Claire Brummell, Feminine 1stLast Thursday was one of the best Valentine’s Day’s I’ve ever had.

I got to spend an evening with a man who makes me feel like the most special woman in the whole world, snuggling up to a romantic movie drinking Bellinis and eating popcorn.

…and I spent the afternoon sharing with some amazing single women from around the world about the 7 mistakes single women make when looking for love.

How do I know they are amazing women?

Well, the fact that they care enough about their intimate lives to take an hour out of their day to find out how they can transform their dating lives for good is a pretty clear indication to me.

The other thing that gave it away was some of the questions they asked.  …and today I get to respond to one of them and share it with you.

How can you have a relationship vision and not take the masculine ‘hunter’ approach to get it?

When I saw that someone had asked this question I was delighted.  Here were a group of women who ‘get it’.  They understand the real challenges that approaching relationships in a masculine way can have.

They know that taking on the ‘hunter’ role when looking for love can have a serious impact on the kind of man that you attract…and more importantly on the kind of man that you won’t.

So how is it possible to have a relationship vision and approach it in a feminine way?

The question is “Is there another way?” Is it possible to hold a specific and clear idea of the kind of man and relationship that you want to attract into your life, to have that relationship vision, and not ‘hunt it down’?

The short answer is simple.  Yes.  There is another way.

…and today I get to share with you why that’s true.  Watch the video now to find out more:

Bonus Video – How to have a relationship vision and not approach it in a masculine way from Claire Brummell on Vimeo.

So how can I create a relationship vision that I can really attract in this way?

As I mention in the video there’s so many aspects to this and I have so much to share with you about how to create a relationship vision and approach it in a way that you can really attract the relationship that you desire and deserve, that I’ve put them all together in the Femininity for the Single Woman Video Course…which is available now…Click here for more information.

…and if you’d like to find out more about the 7 Mistakes Single Women Make When Looking For Love AND The 1 Thing You Need To Know To Attract The Relationship You Desire & Deserve. Then you can now get access to the recording of the webinar…click here to get the free videos and the videos sent straight to your inbox:

Can’t wait to see you then, and in the meantime remember to stay fabulous!

Claire x