How do I find the balance between needy and not interested?

How do you find the balance between needy and not bothered? Claire Brummell, Feminine 1stI love being able to share things that I know people want to know about.

So having received over 100 questions in the last few weeks  about femininity, masculinity, polarity, dating and relationships, I’ve been in my element.

Last night I got to share the answers to some of these questions with the people who joined me for the live Q&A webinar I hosted.

…but I also wanted to make sure that if you weren’t able to join us live that you didn’t miss out…

Have you ever wondered what being needy is all about?

So today I wanted to share with you the answer to one of the questions that I shared on the Q&A call, and let you know that if you want to hear the rest of them, that there’s an opportunity for you to do so.

So the question I was asked was “How do I find the balance between being needy and not bothered at all?”

What I realised when I was answering this though, was that this doesn’t just relate to dating and intimate relationships…this relates to every kind of relationship we have!

So how do you find the balance between being needy and not at all bothered?

Well the good news is that there is a balance between the two.

A sweet spot between one extreme and the other.

The place that if you can find it will make a huge difference to all your relationships.

That point is ‘desire’.

So today I’m going to share with you the difference between neediness and desire, to help you begin to transform the relationships in every area of your life.

Watch the video now to find out the answer:

So would you prefer to be in desire, than needy?

For most people, this is a no brainer.  They’d choose desire every day of the week and twice on Sundays.

So what are the steps to making this shift?

  • First you need to understand what your fundamental needs are.
  • Second you need to be sure that your basic needs are being met by you.
  • Third you need to recognise your own value and worth on your own, without needing anything external to complete you.

If you’d like a helping hand in taking these steps, and others that will help you to attract the relationship that you desire and deserve, then I’d love for you to join me on the Femininity for the Single Woman Video Course: How to Attract the Relationship You Desire & Deserve. Click here to find out more: Click here for more information.

…and if you’d like to hear the rest of the fantastic questions from the Q&A call, but weren’t able to join us last night, then I have good  news! I’m hosting an encore call next Thursday, 21st March at 9pm.  Sign up here to receive all of the details of the call, as well as the free video series and webinar the 7 mistakes single women make when looking for love, direct to your inbox:

Can’t wait to speak to you again soon, and in the meantime remember to stay fabulous!

Claire x

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