Your Unique Femininity Formula – Do you know how to let go of control?

Your Unique Femininity Formula - Do you know how to let go of control? - Claire Brummell, Feminine 1stControl.

We all like to feel that we have an element of control, that we have the ability to affect what happens in our lives.

But is control a bad thing?

I mean, if we lose control everything will fall apart, right?

Not necessarily…

Is control really a bad thing?

There are a couple of challenges when it comes to control.

The first is that, control is a myth.  We can’t ever really be in control of what happens in life.

Our lives get affected by events and other people, which means that trying to keep control is futile.

If we can instead realise that control is nothing more than illusion life gets a lot easier.

Why should I let go of control?

The second challenge for control for a feminine woman is that it puts us squarely in our masculine.

Trying to keep control brings a lot of tension to our bodies.

Just think for a moment of trying to control something…then think of trying to control a number of things at the same time.  Can you feel the tension beginning to creep in?

Often the muscles in your stomach, back and shoulders begin to tighten and draw in.

Tightening and tension in the body is a sign of the masculine, as opposed to relaxation and flow which is much more connected to the feminine.

So today I want to talk to you a little bit about control and how you can begin to let it go:

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Stay Fabulous,

Claire x

2 replies
  1. Stacie Walker
    Stacie Walker says:

    Hello Claire,

    I adore this Vlog post.

    Letting go can be a battle with me from time to time. Sometimes it’s difficult for me to let go with my family. I admit I can be a bit of a control freak every now and then. It drives my family mad. Lol! By the way, they do hold me accountable for my actions. Oh, I love them:)

    You are so right, it is so much better to just let go and realize that I don’t have to try to control everything. In reality, I cannot control others and it will only stress me out if I take that route.

    Thanks for reminding me to let go.

    Many Blessings,

    Stacie Walker
    Woman in Leadership

    • Claire
      Claire says:

      You’re so welcome Stacie, control is something that so many women struggle with…but learning to let go makes life much easier for us AND those around us! x


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